Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Ok ladies and gentleman. I have a problem. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 months. And one day out of nowhere she starts talking non-stop about this other guy. All freaking day! I was a little worried, but she said it was nothing. Well, stupid me, decided to get into her MySpace and see if there was anything more to her and this other guy. When i got in, there were about 20 messages between them. He invited her to his house to drink with just him and spend the night. She replied that she would love that and that they would have a lot of fun *wink* *wink*. He asked if she had a boyfriend and she replied "Yes, but he won't mind, he's not one to get hostile".

Now, to what just happened about 15 minutes ago. She somehow found out about it and confronted me. She says that all the trust in our relationship is gone. I am wondering if anyone out there has any ideas on how to salvage this wreck of a relationship? Or if I even should after she was talking to another guy?

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Here's an idea: don't salvage it. End it.

By logging onto her Myspace you clearly don't trust her and now that she knows it's the same on the other end. Get over her and find somebody else. Do you honestly want to be with a girl who's willing to go drink with some guy and spend the night over there without letting you know about it? I don't think so. Find somebody who has more respect for you. You can do better than her.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Hacking into her myspace is a complete invasion of privacy

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Forget it.

Its not worth salvaging,

i mean she doesn't trust you and you don't trust her.

even if you did work it through, you'd always be wondering if she was cheating..

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

It sounds like she is mad that you found out before she could dump you. Kick her to the curb and find a good woman.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Let her go and be 'single' it's obviously what she wants. It's not fair for you to sit back and be cheated on or have an attempt to be cheated on.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Just end it man. She was ready to screw another guy.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

if she was going to go and stay the night with another guy that you dont even know, then leave her. she is ovewrreacting and even though it was wrong to look into the messages. you found something wrong with her talking to another guy.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Firstly this sounds too far fetched looking at your girlfriends responses to the guy.

However if it is true screw her not literally.She is using reverse psycology.Dont let her.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

This is TOUGH. I say let it go....plenty of fish in the sea. Many women are going to say that you invaded her privacy, which you did, but for a good reason. If a girl hacked a guys myspace account, and found what you did.....then the guy would be at fault. Just keep this in mind man......It's always our fault. Pick your pride up and move one.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

I know that after 3 months it can seem like your relationship is pretty serious (I've been there too) but in reality a 3 month relationship is just a baby! You guys haven't had time to establish true trust with one another.... Hell it took me and my current boyfriend atlest 6 months! I agree that BOTH of you made pretty serious mistakes, but if she didn't actually cheat on you and if this is a first time offense for you both, then i think you should give it another try. I don't think you should end any relationship based solely on ONE screw up! We learn best from our mistakes.. so you need to let each other make a few and try to be forgiving. Have a calm and respectful talk with her (in person works best) and never yell. Explain that you think both of you are just human you both deserve a second chance. Both of you should apoligize and acknowledge that you were in the wrong... then start talking about ways you can rebuild your trust and make your relationship stronger! Good luck!!

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

ouch. Your both in the wronf but i will side with you as she is almost cheating on you, your only worried its fine. Explain to her.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

This happened with my ex-bf. I checked his email and he ended up finding out, but it was because i found some things just like you found. He is now my ex because i could never look at him the same after seeing those messages. I think that you should just move on especially cause it has only been 3 months. My relationship was 5 years... I am so happy that i moved on because right now i have someone that treats me with respect and trust! hope this helped you

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

be strong and tell her that she is a pig @ss for talking to that guy behind your back...she is just looking for an excuse to break up with you run to that guy have hot sex..and then come back to you when its all over pretending nothing happened. find a girl with class

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

I've been involved in a similar situation. I didn't spy on her, but she did meet someone online behind my back and then confronted me trying to make it my problem. While I don't think you should have spied on her, I also don't think she should have fooled around behind your back.

I'd say cut your losses and move on. It's only been 3 months and the longer you wait, the more hurt you'll probably get. If this type of problem is occuring this early in the relationship, then it doesn't stand a good chance at succeeding. You just can't form love without trust or respect and you certainly can't communicate without honesty.

I do wish you the best of luck. :-)

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Shame on you for hacking her myspace! (lol) That said, she found out because myspace lists your last log in and it didn't match (whoopsie) As for her talking to other guys on there etc. this is a trust issue that won't go away.Do you really want a sneaky gf? Sure, you checked up on her, and, trust me she'll try to say that YOU are the sneaky one....BUT if there had been nothing to hide, you wouldn't have found it....don't let her turn this one around on you.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

What you did was wrong, period...What she said to this guy was wrong..Like you would not care...The trust is gone on both sides....I hope you both learned a lesson...Both sides can forgive, but never forget.............move on...Was it worth it?

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

i just want to start off by saying Damn Good Job! how did you hack it?

But to answer your question i think it is possible to save it. You just need to express your concern about it without seeming like a prick. But she must really mean alot for you to still want to be with her (tell her that).

Good luck

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Wow Man!!

Give it some time . Don't tak to her for a few days. Don't call or text. If she calls you just be careful what you say . You don't want to make things worse.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

I would talk to her about it. Tell her that yeah you didn't trust her but I mean you had a reason not to! If she still blames it all on you, forget her.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

All the trust in the relationship was gone, but it was not entirely your fault. Her behavior with this other guy shows that she doesn't have any respect for your relationship and that she wasn't worthy of any trust in the first place. Tell her that she is right, the trust is gone. First because she was dishonest with you and second because you were dishonest with her.

You might feel bad about what you did, but she obviously isn't even embarrassed about being caught in a compromising situation with another guy.

Personally, I can forgive a little protectiveness and jealousy (stressing a little), but I cannot forget dishonesty in character that will eventually lead to unfaithfulness.

She might have been teasing this guy, flirting shamelessly without any intention of following through. But that kind of behavior shows that she doesn't know where her loyalties lie.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

It sounds like she had plans to cheat on you. Even if she wasn't going to go through with it, she blatantly disrespected you by flirting with this guy and then pretty much called you a wimp. I'd say be glad you found out about this before it escalated or your relationship got any deeper. You know how when you watch Cheaters on TV, the cheater is always so defensive and shocked that their mate has hired someone to watch them? They are so pissed because they got caught and they feel guilty and stupid. It sounds like that's exactly how your girl is feeling right now.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

I think you were definitlely wrong to read her messages, and you should apologize for that and never do it again. Then you should confront her about this guy and tell her that you don't appreciate her sending such flirtacious messages to another man. If she still is upset I think you should let her go and cut your losses because the relationship is still new so things wont hurt as bad.

If she chooses him over you then you know that she has other intentions with this guy that she plans on making happen so my advice to you would be to just let it go if she gives the wrong response.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

i would just let things go..u guys r only into 3 months..let her be with this other guy and cheat on him...if u stay with her hard tellin what other dirt she'll be doing behind ur back...she's not worth puttin ur whole heart and soul into if she's going to be goin to stay at other mens house...good luck

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Been there, done that, i would chalk that relationship to the garbage, for number one yes you did invade her privacy, that was wrong, and what happened you found out something you really didn't want the answer to.. second why would you try to salvage a relationship like that, luckily it was only 3 months and not 3 years, then she tries to make everything your fault, and you did nothing wrong (in a way) i believe anything that you won't do in front of your mate is cheating and that's what she was doing! how would she would have felt if she caught you on my space saying the things she was, how would she feel then. she's not worthy enough to be your gf anyway, good luck

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Ok don't save the relationship, because she has proven not to be very trustworthy. You were wrong when you went into her my space, but look what you found out, she was planning something. I can tell you, if my boyfriend would go in my my space I wouldn't mind, because I have nothing to hide. You went snooping and you caught her in her dirty little secret, so she got pissed. She doesn't sound very faithfull, so man dump her.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

first, you've 'invaded her privacy' for the good

second, a 'yes' from a girl with a 'wink-wink' is a killer.

third, you caught her red handed.

c'mon dude, they wouldn be discussing weather all night.

just, let her go.

dont forget to do the wink-wink.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

Hacking into her myspace was not the best idea, and shouldnt of been done. Now if she left it open and you accidently saw it, then its be some what ok. But i can understand your concern. One if she was planning on staying the night at another guys house, she should of atleast told you. It is pretty odd that she would even consider spending the night at his house when she is with you.My b/f would flip out if that ever happened, and most guys would. An also it is weird that she did not even tell you she was. I mean thats fishy, if she had nothing to hide she would of came out and told you hey i spending the night at my friend, the guys house and no problems. Theres no crime in talking to another guy, but spending the night at another guys is. But bottom line its up to you if you wanna make the relationship work or not, if you wanna work it out then work it. But if you don't feel you can trust her then i wouldnt be with her. But talk it out, express your concern about this other guy and express how much you do love her, and let her express her side as well and come to some agreement.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

just tell her that u were insecure thats y u did wat u have done. u didnt do any harm to the girl or the guy. just use thet usual trick, apologize, beg for forgiveness and give her something that will move her. u know, girls are very weak toward somethings guys do. just no how to apply the tricks.

hope u well!

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

So did I LMAO I did this to my man..The difference is that i did it to prove to his bit*hes and himself that everything i knew and confronted him with was true. He being a man or Pus*y lied yet i have all the evidence and more some. I have taken him back knowing he will always come with baggage, issues and drama..willing to share him without me being the one he comes home to ragged on..BECAUSE HE CANNOT HANDLE HIS BUSINESS OR BIT*HES!

She is using the upper hand on you...you of course intrude into her privacy..that leaves lack of trust from her in you..I know go figure..Yet it is the same filler-buster..tap dance fu*k up routine I get from my mentally sick man...

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

these type of situations are very awkward.

I had to learn my lesson when I was looking through my boyfriends phone and I saw some things that I didn't want to see. But he learned his lesson when he went through my text messages and read what guys were saying to me.

We both agreed that we need to learn how to respect each others privacy and learn to trust each other. If you go snooping you should expect the worst.

So apologize and if she still make a big deal about it then she is obviously guilty about the situation.

Hacked My Girlfriends Myspace!?

what a jerk this is not right go and apoligize