Friday, November 27, 2009

My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

My cousin is only 15 and so am I(I'm 9days older) and she started when she was 14. I'm concerned because I talked to her about it because our family has history of drinking and doing heavy drugs at an early age. She is the first one of all the kids in our generation to try underage drinking and smoking weed,snorting cocaine mixed with chronic and other stuff. I found out by hacking into her Myspace account and she told a complete stranger about it and not even telling her family. She also has a friend that help set her into this crazy mode because she is a $lut at age 16. My cousin lives 2hours away and I feel if she keeps hanging out with her $lut friend then she will start drinking and doing drugs again. She also lost her virginity while she was drunk and high by a guy she just met that night and doesn't even know his name. So could you please help me because I don't want her to get into that again and have her OD on drugs or get alcohol poisoning. Thanks in Advance for answers.



My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

Sounds like my little brother. God I miss him! He got put in jail, rehab and then spent his last Thanksgiving and Christmas in bootcamp. He quit using and then died in a car accident at age 17 but I think he was drinking even though my parents said the toxicology report was negative. I'm just going by what his friends that were there with him said.



There is nothing that you or anybody can do except for her. She has to make up her own mind as to whom she hangs out with and will have to suffer the consequences of her own actions.



Fifteen is an age that you are beginning to find yourself and alot of emotions run through you. You think that the people that are trying to help you are just being strict and that you know everything.



All you can do is tell her that you love her and care about her and don't want to see anything happen to her. If she is still boozing it up and doing drugs, sooner or later it will catch up whether it be with the law or hurting herself and some people have to learn the hard way. I always had to.



My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

Thanks. Wish you lots of luck and hope you have a great weekend! Report It



My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

Just let her know you are there for her when she needs you.



Most likely you cannot help her. Don't be disappointed; you can't save everybody.



My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

Just relax and talk to her, but don't talk about the drugs or the problem... Just say that you are with her whenever she needs help.... Well addiction can be pretty amusing but you have to help her...



My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

if she's still in to all that the only real thing you can do is tell her parents, they need to help her get in to couseling.



Then it's up to her if she wants to straighten out and get away from that life style. As long as she's trying be there to support her, but if she's just interested in dragging you down with her back away and live your own life.



My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

Its good she has someone who cares about her. Just got to let her fall and stumble from her own problems but youll be the one who will help her back up. Just no matter what be there for her when she really needs you.



My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

turn her in. when she is done with rehab, and if she is a great individual, then she will thank you. thats all you need. good luck



My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

do u know why your cousin started did something bad happen to her. u should try to get your cousin to join a club or sport these actives well help make her tried and have no time to do bad things u should tell some body my conusin did it for me but i only somke. my cousin told my father he was a jerk a first but claim down to help my lungs r amost clean and i go for walks since it to late to join football. but telling somebody in the family in this case is better because if u don't and she goes 6 feet under(dead) before at this age u will hate your self because u could have done something not trying to be mean but i aready hate my self for what happen to my mom but that another story hpoe it works out.



My cousin was into heavy drinking and drugs! HELP!?

Go to a 12 step meeting like al-anon so you can learn what you can and can't do for an addict you care about :_

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