Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

i have been going out with him for 10 months and he's done somethings that are kinda psycho. (hacking into my myspace account to see my inbox messages, sending my guy friends messages pretending to be me) he says he will change. the thing is that i'm kinda quiet and don't have that many friends. he's always there for me. he's become my only true friend and i feel like i need him in my life. he wants me back. but i don't know if i love him enough to take him back. should i get back with him, just be friends with him, or move on?

Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

I know from personal experienc.....once a pyscho, always a pyshco. Run and don't look back.

The fact that you are contemplating moving on means that you know that he is not right for you. If he was a true friend he wouldn't hack into your mysace account and pretend to be you. That is the sign of a VERY insecure and controlling person. You should make it clear to him that you can be friends only and you value that friendship. Stick to your guns.

Move on. And work on you. You need to become more assertive and less shy. The only way to do that is to get over the fear and the shyness and just talk to people. Most of the time they are as nervous as you are. You will be surprised how quickly you make friends.

Don't settle for this nut. You are worth much more and deserve much better. He will never change and things will jsut get worse.

Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

That is a serious trust issue for sure but myspace is not real life so to speak if you love him then you should give him another change and ask him to prove his change to you 10 months is not 2 days you feel me there is time vested in that

Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

Nah, he's a control freak.

Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

Move on. He already doesn't trust you or he wouldn't be snooping in your myspace and he's interefered with the few friends you do have. It sounds to me like he self esteem issues and perhaps lacks confidence in himself. I'd lose him and move on.

Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

You deserve better treatment than this. If you start acting like you believe that, you'll start getting it. You should move on and find a guy that treats you right and respects your privacy.

Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

If you don't know if you love him then you don't. Move on and if you feel later you can be friends with him try it then.

Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

give him a chance my bf now husband use to be like that when we first strated dating bc he was insecure and had trust issues from previous relationships. but tell him he needs to trust u or the relationship wont work. but it wokred out for me so it could foru too. goodl uck

Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

You having not too many friends and seeing him as someone who is always there for you is setting yourself up to be dependant on him, which is unhealthy. Tell him you are not ready to enter into a serious relationship as you have some emotional growing up to do. Stay friends and see if it works out. In the mean time make other friends. Besides, you don't want to be with someone just because you feel there were no other options. To choose to be with someone is because you want to not need to. Best of luck to you!

Should i get back with him? just be friends? or just move on?

He seems to have done what he might feel guilty of. Yeah i think that is taking it to an extreme by hacking your myspace to pretend to be you. You sound like a nice girl. So ill begin to tell you that its healthy to have friendships and a life outside of a relationship. Dont forget to spend time with your friends even the few you do have as you never know how things progress with this guy. In all honesty my premontion feels this isnt going to last because his hacking into your page is just the beggining of a pattern of insecurity and trust issues. They always promise to change they do for a while then they go back to their old ways. Not always but if you do stay with him i can wholeheartidly say proceed with caution if thats where your heart lies, you know truly what you want but dont ignore the signs that may be right in your face.